2013年1月20日星期日

I feel very curious

I remember a friend once said that some words: Do not what to believe in love, not to believe that the vows with her, because the fairy tale is a lie, if you believe in the fairy tale of love, you are the world's most stupid people.

Perhaps a bad mood because he said so unreasonable remarks, but from the sound of his sad inside, I listen to him seriously.

I feel very curious, so I asked him: Why are you so bold affirmation?

He contemptuously toward me smile, like to laugh at my naive and simple, and then said to me: not dare say so, but have not really experienced, I dare to say that the only truly experienced.

Then he started telling them the story and I ...

She and I fell in love from the encounter to now, has been a full six years of time, usually we also noisy too, but we never broke up, because we have been in love with each other.

We wait a year when you can get married, but she suddenly broke up, his girlfriend wanted to marry her would have to buy a house, which her mother gave her the conditions, and also the protection of her future life .

I was listening very angry, because rural areas you want to buy a house in the city is very difficult, not to mention the older parents in poor health, I said to her: your mother to let me buy a house is to protect your life, then I'm outside so years, who protection over my life? I married you, not your mother!

On that occasion, we had a falling frame of the full three hours, and finally she cried and called me asking me beat, I did not say, a man quietly left the face of the familiar streets I got the feeling from the never had strange, I know that she really has left me.

Later, she called me over the telephone and says that he should not worry about my feelings, and I also know their own range of error should not then the impulse to criticize her, apologized to her, but we did not and because I know as a man, you can not let the beloved woman happy, then it's no love, I let her really want to tell me when to come to me, my money will go to marry you, she up to now there has been no back ......

Here, his tears began to stop the draw down, and I saw more than just a man vulnerable side, saw a man love a woman waiting for her sincere outpouring as silly, like he said, But I feel silly indeed valuable, he is not love or do not love, can wait for one do not know how long people are coming back is a touched.

I said: that she know?

He said: know the important key is to appear a rift between us, you want to heal, the need for a long period of time to repair ...

I wanted to ask once some of their things, but I think their future was speechless, equally loved one, or to be silent to bear the pain and wait.

In fact, not the fact that people are the most difficult to accept, but the fact that we are not willing to accept, we tend to not want to accept something, the more prone to heart pain but reflect the reality of the best mirror, we should correct use it to shine on the road ahead, we should not lose the direction shone light.

Love is a need to go to the sentiment of the book, we see with the eyes of love just the surface, true love needs careful to listen, we would know love when you know how life.

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